There exist thousands of imaginary tales on dating dos and don’ts, making someone fall in love with you, and other types of recommendation falling within the variety of relationships. Love is a complex thing, don’t you think so? But there are various things that do work if you’re interested in chasing something more than a talk and some fancy drinks with a girl.
And when it comes to wooing the right women, guys become clueless and they too are afraid of the same. But is that it is done? GUYS… GUYS..!! Don’t be afraid until and unless you’re confident about yourself. Here is how you can grab an attention and become a professional wooer in no time!! Check out the solutions as below.
Step 1 FIRST CATCHES HER EYE!
Move towards the women as soon as you can
After locking an eye, talk to her soon. For a second hold her gaze. And then just walk up to her. I think after this it becomes your habit the sooner you talk the earlier it becomes a habit for you. Not a big deal!!!
Just take a deep breath and try to maintain a good posture and that is all about having the confidence. She will be more likely to need to get to be familiar with you as more you’ll be confident.
Don’t be so reserve to open conversation
Many of the guys feel shy while coming close to women as they just can't think of what to say in the beginning. Keep it like any other talk except that this one has romantic possibilities.
Look her in the eye and let her know who you are, and ask her name. And suppose if she is with friends, talk to them too.
Escape the “Friend Zone” by breaking this big touch barrier
Once you start talking with “your” girl, within the first half hour of the chat you should try to touch her, if things are going well. The earlier you can get yourself out of the Friend Zone the better you can set up that you have a romantic connection. If things are working well, flippantly tap the girl’s knee, touch her arm, or give her a touch on the shoulder playfully but don’t move fast please. Move a bit closer to her and see how she responds. If she doesn’t pull back, THEN?! Obviously, she likes you and wants to be with you at this moment.
Enjoy with her and be playful!
Guys do keep the things amusing and light! Don’t take the conversations too seriously. Crack jokes. Make the whole thing feel light-hearted and easy topics, like some movies if you like, a concert if you went to, an absurd celebrity in the news, or just anything which is funny and makes her smile. It’s just that you stop having a serious chat and coming to the point at the starting only without making her know who and how you are.
Don’t treat it like an interview
Interview? You might be thinking that No! It’s not! Don’t you ask girls many questions? Think? Yes, of course, and this only irritates her the most. Not to ask more than more than two questions should be your rule of thumb. Instead of making her pick up all the floppy, woo a woman with your conversational abilities.
Don’t tell everything to her in the beginning
We know that you like this or that girl, but that doesn’t mean you should say everything to her at the very first where you even don’t know about her fully yet. So, just don’t be an open book, or she’ll think that it’s simple for any person at all to hit upon out all the things about you.
Yes, you can talk a little bit about your friends and family, but don’t tell her all about your major regret, your thoughts for the future, or your most shocking childhood flash. If you keep things a little unexplained, she’ll only want to see you more.
Grasp the door for her
After eye contact what’s next? Obviously, you are going to take her somewhere like Cafe or Restaurant! Remember these words “After you” or “You First”, these little tiny words shows the courtesy you have, and that impress a girl for sure.
It looks so obvious, however, many men either not remember that this rule exists. But you don’t know as this says so much about you.
Step 2 – Care For Her Interest
Give her a genuine Compliment
If you need the girl to feel persuaded and to keep on attracted, then, well, you have to let her know a little bit as for how you feel about her. When the instant is right, give her a genuine compliment that makes her see that you’re actually paying attention. She’ll be in fact impressed by your ability to discover what’s special about her, whether you’re praising her personality or anything else that makes her special.
Avoid your phone or keep your phone away
If you need your woman to be with you, you should also act like you want to be with her. Going your phone during the date is a way of saying, “I am more fascinated by this electronic thing than looking at your face.” Ensure that she knows that’s not true; keep your phone in your pocket. Just get it out of your face and look at her. Be occupied at the moment.
Find an ordinary Ground
You can begin to excavate deeper to search things you have in common like Hobbies, Passions, Family etc. Let it happen naturally in the discussion. If she mentions where she is from, you can ask if she likes anything about that place or city. Once you find certain things you have infrequent, the woman will feel more linked to you
Show that you can laugh at yourself
She can’t feel like you take yourself too badly or seriously if you want to woo her. Make a joke at your own outlay and explain to her that you know that you’re not the world’s most ideal man obviously!
You can start to tease the girl a bit once you’re comfortable with each other but at a limit. Make her feel like you’re just having a good time with her. Just be playful and light!! Tease her for wearing girlish pinkie pink color. Make fun of her funky shoes while making it clear you in fact like them. Laugh at her mania over her two cats.
Don’t let it get too one-sided, please!!
Flirt with her
FLIRTING?! This goes along with teasing her and being playful. Stare her in the eyes, smile at her, and look away occasionally. Give a tap on her arm playfully! Make some jokes and while letting her see that you have fun with her, don’t be too noticeable about how much you like her.
Don’t feel shy about trying to flirt. The more you attempt it, the more ordinary it will feel.
Step 3- Taking to the next level !
Take her out
Take her out in a manner, not just to the bowling passage. Pick her up, be on time especially and plan a little fun and thrilling for you to do together. Check out the new movies in cinemas and also try to cook a meal from the food you got at home. Hit up a hookah lounge or cafes! Search for something unique that makes the girl feel special and like you truly have placed some efforts on the date.
Be a gentleman and charm her
Do what you can to make her feel like a factual lady with no acting too old-fashioned. Walk on the side nearest the street, if you’re walking down the street. Don’t show up late. It’s about making her feel like you’ve invested time and care into your time together.
To charm her means being able to illustrate an actual interest in people while making them laugh, feel light-hearted, and feel swept off their feet. If you need to charm the woman, then you have to work solidly to make her happy and feel special, keep things appealing that’s it!
A healthy dose of affection is must to woo a woman. This means when the time is right you should put your arm around her, give hold her or squeeze her hand. But it doesn’t mean that you should be all over her each time that you’re together, but it is just to let her know that you care about her.
If you’re at that level, you can also do some cuddling or be huddling!
Introduce her to your best friends and family members
She will love to see and meet your friends as they want to know more about you. She’ll desire your friends to be her friends. Get- together with your friends will demonstrate her you’re like with your amigos, what your personality is like in a diverse context and your right sense of humor. As friends are like a lifeline for you, and you spent most of the time being with them.
Take her to meet your parents when you think that it is the right time. It illustrates her that you need to show her off as you’re proud to be with her. At the first moment, you can see her that she will be nervous and scared. She’ll stress about what to wear as she’ll wish for to look respectable. So don’t let her stress out about a little that will be so slight later on.
Listen to her!
Don’t just sector out whenever she talks, waiting for your moment to speak something. Ensure that you really listen to her as what she’s saying that you make eye contact and concentrate as when she talks to you and that you respond suitably when the time calls for it.
Make her feel special!
You have to make her feel like in the world she’s the only woman, no one is as unique as her. Show her that you know what makes her different from the other and that you care about her as a person. And you like her as she is!
So, dear men, I depart you with these tips to realize you that just become confident and be the best while you are with your loved one. You are now all set to re-enter the dating sphere, capable of with the knowledge of how to woo a woman in the right way.
And girls if you’re reading this and if your guy is doing most of these things, then you’ve found a guy who demonstrates promise in doing them. And you’ve got yourself a member of the undisclosed Society.